Membership Agreement

Be authentic

• Use your own identity and current, honest information.
• Do not impersonate people, organizations, or communities.
• Do not misrepresent your intentions, relationship status, age, or reasons for contacting someone.

Respect consent and boundaries

• No means no. Silence, delayed replies, and unmatched enthusiasm are not consent.
• Do not pressure anyone for replies, dates, photos, personal details, affection, sex, money, or off-platform contact.
• Stop contacting a person when asked, blocked, unmatched, or otherwise clearly disengaged.
• Respect stated communication styles, accessibility needs, and sensory boundaries.

No harassment or exploitation

• No threats, stalking, bullying, hate speech, sexual harassment, coercion, blackmail, or intimidation.
• No targeting people because of disability, neurotype, race, ethnicity, religion, sex, gender identity, sexual orientation, age, or other protected status.
• No grooming, trafficking, fetishization of disability, or exploitation of a person’s support needs or vulnerability.

Protect privacy

• Do not publish another member’s private information or conversations without permission.
• Do not record calls, meetings, images, or intimate activity without clear consent.
• Never share another person’s exact location, workplace, medical information, or identifying details to harm or expose them.

No scams, spam, or manipulation

• Do not ask members to send money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, banking details, passwords, or verification codes.
• No pyramid schemes, deceptive investment offers, unsolicited selling, mass messaging, or recruitment spam.
• Do not use emotional pressure, fabricated emergencies, or false romantic interest for financial gain.

Keep content lawful and appropriate

• No content involving minors in a sexual or exploitative context.
• No non-consensual intimate imagery, graphic threats, illegal goods, or instructions intended to facilitate harm.
• Only share photos, writing, and other content you have permission to use.

Meet thoughtfully

Move at your own pace. Consider video or voice verification, tell a trusted person about first meetings, meet in public, control your own transportation, and leave whenever you feel uncomfortable. Never send money or financial credentials to a person you only know online.

Stay aware. Do not accept drinks from strangers and be mindful of your surroundings if substances are present. If a meeting feels wrong, leave — you do not owe anyone an explanation.

Sexual health

If you choose to engage in sexual activity with someone you meet on unmaskd., please look after yourself and your partner. Communicate openly about boundaries, STI testing, and contraception. Consider using barrier protection consistently and getting regular sexual health screenings. Respect goes both ways — your partner's limits are as important as your own.

Reporting and enforcement

Report conduct that may put you or others at risk. Reports should be truthful and made in good faith. unmaskd. may remove content, limit contact features, warn members, suspend accounts, preserve relevant records, or permanently remove members. Serious threats or suspected illegal activity may be referred to appropriate authorities where required or reasonably necessary.

Your commitment

By continuing, you confirm that you understand these expectations and will help maintain a community where people can connect without being pressured to mask, disclose more than they choose, or tolerate harmful behavior.

Support resources

If you or someone you know needs help, these services are free, confidential, and available any time:

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — Call or text 988 (US)
• Crisis Text Line — Text HOME to 741741 (US)
• RAINN — 1-800-656-4673 · rainn.org (sexual assault support, US)
• National Domestic Violence Hotline — 1-800-799-7233 · thehotline.org (US)
• Trans Lifeline — 877-565-8860 · translifeline.org (US & Canada)
• The Trevor Project — 1-866-488-7386 · thetrevorproject.org (LGBTQ+ youth, US)
• National Human Trafficking Hotline — 1-888-373-7888 (US)
• Planned Parenthood — 1-800-230-7526 · plannedparenthood.org (sexual health, US)

Outside the US? Visit findahelpline.com for a directory of crisis lines by country.