unmaskd

Meet people
as you are.

A reply that takes a while, or a conversation that quietly fades. Neither one has to end a friendship here. unmaskd. is built with ADHD adults in mind.

unmaskd. is a free platform for friendship, dating, and collaboration. Going quiet for a while doesn't mean you don't care, and it won't cost you the friendship here. What matters is being upfront about how you communicate, so people already understand before you disappear for a bit.

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Currently in beta. Adults 18+.

No engagement-driven feed

Discovery runs on the filters and ordering you choose — not an algorithm designed to keep you scrolling.

Show up as yourself

Set your communication style, energy limits, and sensory needs — right on your profile.

You set the pace

Slow replies are welcome. Take the time you need to process — unmaskd isn't built with pressure to respond instantly.

Choose your path

Friendship

Meet people who won't take it personally if a reply takes a while. Friendship here flexes with whatever energy you actually have.

Two friends at a creative community event

Collaboration

Find people interested in creative projects, professional ideas, accountability, skill-sharing, and building something together.

Two people recording a podcast together

Dating

Make your intentions, preferences, and boundaries clearer before beginning a conversation.

Two people sharing a close, relaxed moment
Energy limits, upfront

Profiles built around how your energy actually works.

Not just a photo and a bio. Say what your energy looks like day to day, so people already know before they reach out.

How you identify

Share what feels relevant. Nothing more.

How you communicate

Direct and literal, slow replies okay, infodumping welcome.

What you need

Support, processing time, quiet spaces — set expectations once.

Your energy limits

High capacity days, low capacity weeks — share it on your profile, right where people will see it.

Your boundaries

Voice calls, video chats, reply pace — spell it out once so it's clear before anyone reaches out.

Connection without the guessing.

See communication preferences, connection goals, and profile details before you reach out.

Communication style upfront

Know how someone communicates before you reach out.

Support needs visible

See what support someone needs from the start.

Intent is clear and specific

No reading between the lines. Say what you're looking for.

Slow replies are okay

Profiles can note this, so people know before they reach out.

Starting small

Growing deliberately.

unmaskd. is launching with a smaller first group instead of opening everywhere at once. This gives early members a better chance to be seen and helps unmaskd. grow through real participation. Feedback and sharing are always optional.

Founding members

Recognition for being here early.

The first 20 members with completed profiles receive permanent Founding Member recognition as a thank-you for being here at the beginning. It does not provide better access or place anyone above members who join later.

See what that means

Recognition for joining in unmaskd.’s earliest days — a thank-you, not a rank. It doesn’t affect visibility, access, or features.

Questions about friendship, at your own pace.

Who is unmaskd. for?
unmaskd. was designed with neurodiversity in mind — including people with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyspraxia, OCD, sensory processing differences, and more — and it's open to adults who value communicating without masking. You do not need a diagnosis or to identify as neurodivergent to join. unmaskd. is also fully LGBTQIA2S+ affirming.
Is unmaskd. only for dating?
No. You set your own connection goals: friendship, collaboration, or dating — any combination. Profiles only show the sections relevant to what you are looking for.
Can I take a break from messaging?
Yes. You can deactivate your account temporarily from Account Settings. While deactivated, your profile is hidden and you will not appear in Discover. Reactivate any time by logging in.
What are Circles?
Circles are small community spaces organised around shared interests, identities, or topics. You can join circles, post, reply, and connect with people you meet there — even if you have not matched directly.
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